Letting Righteous Men Strike Us: Receiving Firm Rebuke in a Culture of "Niceness"
"Let a Righteous Man Do What?" What should we do when someone rebukes us? Maybe you think of some proverbs that indicate the wisdom of receiving correction and think, "I would hear that person out." Great. But, let me ask another question: What should we do when someone rebukes us rudely? Or, at least, what if we perceive the tone to be rude? It seems to me that most people, especially within [what passes for] evangelicalism would simply dismiss the rebuke on account of the perceived bad tone. But, consider what David says, Let a righteous man strike me--it is a kindness; let him rebuke me--it is oil for my head; let my head not refuse it (Psalm 141:5). In Psalm 141, David is desiring to avoid evil and he recognizes that a rebuke from a righteous man is incalculably valuable! And notice, he doesn't just have in mind "soft" words: "Let a righteous man strike me. " He describes such a stern rebuke as a kindness. The mindset seems to b...